This video inspiring me much. I always impressed with the people who work in hospital everyday. They have to face life and death daily. How they can manage it. Their EQ maybe high enough to go through that. Whenever i pay a visit to hospital, i wonder what all the people i passed by were there for. I wondered about their pain, their joys, their feelings and their tears. We never know what someone is going through. We know nothing what is going on in each other's lives, because we couldn't see inside others's people hearts. A man who is in a smiling face maybe just loss his son. A great reminder of never judge people by how they appear on the outside. Most think we know everything and are so quick to judge. A reminder for me too. Never be a judge'r. There are too many judge'r outside there. What the world's need is the one who can understand what they are going through. Empathy is very important. As a future counselor, i try to understand what is going on with people beside me. How they feel, and why they react like this. It is not a easy task for me to show empathy to others. But i try my best to understand their heart. If you could stand in someone's else shoes, hear what they say, see what they see, feel what they feel, would you treat them differently? We may look different, but our hearts beat with the same dreams. Let's be more loving to others.
Everyone you meet or come across, is fighting a war. When you can't be kind, be silent. Value each and every person who cross in your life. We all have our story. Others have theirs. We never know. Love one another do not deceive OR judge, treat them with courtesy, with compassion, with respect. Every person is PRECIOUS and MEAN A LOT.
每个人都是独特的,每个人都有他的经历,他的人生。正所谓家家有本难念经。很多时候我们都在羡慕别人的生活,其实别人也在羡慕我们的生活。常常我们都爱做一个判官。事情发生时,我们都会自己下定论,而不是查事情的来龙去脉。站在别人的角度想想,有时事情的真相并不像外表所看到的。好比说他的外表像个欺负人的人,其实他才是真正的受害者。不谈论对与错,或许他所做的行为是错的,可是情有可原。为别人想想,了解他们的感受与经历,少一些批评,将这个世界就会多一份爱与和平。
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